
Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
The Real Cost of Family Estrangement
June 1, 202649 min · 10,146 words
Show notes
Family estrangement is strangely common—affecting one-third of American adults today. While cutting ties can bring temporary relief, research suggests that, over time, it often resembles grief. In this episode of Office Hours, I explore why family, one of the four pillars of happiness, is central to meaning, what is driving the rise in estrangement, and why conflicts over values and identity have become so difficult to repair.
Highlighted moments
Over time, the majority who have experienced this estrangement or provoked this estrangement, they wind up with chronic unhappiness. There's a major elevated risk of depression and they also have poor physical health.
“If you as a young adult or not so young adult choose to live differently than your parents, that's almost certainly not going to create schism. If you reject the values of your aging parents, it will.”
“The ones who don't love and care about you are the people encouraging you to pull away from your family.”
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